People Share Advice On How To Achieve An Anal Orgasm

Contrary to what some people may think, you can have an orgasms through anal stimulation. It’s not easily achievable, and you have to know what you’re doing, but it’s not completely impossible. So how exactly can you do this successfully? Here, 15 people on Reddit decided to share their best tips and tricks to achieving and anal orgasm.

Practice. "I(28f) can. It did take awhile for my husband(28m) and I to achieve it. It was always extremely pleasurable but never could orgasm and honestly it didn't matter to much cuz after awhile one of us would please my clit. Probably about 6 months of doing anal once or twice a week I finally achieved it. We didn't really do anything different but maybe I just relaxed more, was more into it than before, or it just happened. Now I can orgasm from PIV, clit play, anal(both by his c*** and mouth), breast/nipple play,” says Reddit user Sexy3SumCouple.

Prostate. "While it may somewhat depend on what you're using and how well it hits your prostate, some general tips are making sure you're using enough lube, that you have an empty bladder/bowels, and that you give yourself plenty of time to work on yourself (approx 1-2 hours). Specifically, I have always found that being on my back with my legs up seems to be the best position for making myself cum hands-free from anal stimulation,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Abstain. ”I've found that abstaining is usually necessary. I usually go without cumming for about a week or so. It's a fine line to walk; the longer the better, but if I try to go too long, I'll end up having a wet dream with a big ejaculation, resetting the clock most of the way. Usually that happens for me around the 10 day point, though I've lasted 14 days before too. (After that long buildup, I had a huge orgasm from anal stimulation only, then still felt horny a few hours later and was able to have a second anal orgasm later that day. Definitely not typical though.)” says Reddit user sirrainier.

Hormones. "I was able to do it when I was a teenager and full of hormones, but I sort of stopped playing with my a** as much as I used to for the last few years apart from the occasional couple of fingers up the a** while I'm jacking off. Mainly I couldn't be bothered dealing with the cleanup that comes with using lube,” says Reddit user grefric.

Distraction. "I have. Adding other stimulation prevents me from orgasaming because it distracts me from the main event. So I can only orgasm from anal on its own in these situations,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Position. "Yes, if I am laying flat in the prone position then I can feel the g-spot stimulation through the anal wall and have pretty intense orgasms. ONLY that position, though,” says Reddit user 219throwaway.

Time. "Just like a g-spot orgasm for a woman, prostate orgasm usually comes after practice, practice, practice. Some man have it deeper or not, some bigger, some smaller. So you need to know yourself and give it time,” says Reddit user JDiva88.

Toys. "It's a very nice feeling. I can't do it from using a dildo, as it isn't shaped for prostate stimulation, but direct prostate stimulation results in ejaculation for me, very quickly. But without stimulating my penis, it's rather a weak ejaculation, but with a strong sensation of orgasm,” says Reddit user loki1717.

Knowing yourself. "Knowing a bit about anatomy and sexual development may help answer your question. Technique is one thing, but I've always found that knowing what's happening to me physiologically helps me get into it in other ways,” says Reddit user BeaconFae.

Shea butter. "Shea butter is absolutely amazing for a long lasting lube. I've fallen asleep with my Aneros in me and when I pull it out in the morning it's still shiny and slick from it. Best lube I've ever bought and great price for how much you can get,” says Reddit user anamil.

Focus. "Focus on what you're feeling, not on what you're not feeling. Whenever you're close next time, just enjoy it and pay attention to it. Continuing to enjoy it is what will get you over the barrier, not thinking about going over. I don't know if that makes sense?” says Reddit user multiple_o.

Massage. "I've tried prostate massaging a bit without reaching an orgasm but it has still been great. But after reading about it online etc, there's a lot of sources saying that you should be really carefull and preferably use a plastic glove and so on. And that if you arent really carefull you can damage your prostate, get prostate inflammation and god knows what. This freaks me out a bit and I have layed off the massaging for some time now,” says Reddit user Lindofrindo.

Toys. "I am not sure what it is called, as I just walked into a sex shop and bought a generic prostate toy. Its a hard silicon prostate toy. Ill use it for about an hour or so. I will put it in, sit there, meditate, do kegel flexes, move it around with my hand. Basically whatever I am feeling at the moment,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Stimulation. "I cum regularly from anal stimulation only, and if the situation is hot enough I can squirt from just anal stimulation. It feels, to me, I guess most like the rare times I can cum from just deepthroating. There's of course lots of sensation data coming in, and it's not first-level pleasure like touching my clit is to me. But if I'm enjoying the encounter and we're building sex energy in all the other ways, that sensation data delivered in the right rhythm becomes louder-louder-LOUDER...explode into orgasm,” says Reddit user Jitzgrrl.

On top. "Favorite is me on top, so I have complete control of anal penetration depth and rate. It takes a couple of strokes up & down to take it all. Once it gets going, I lay forward on my lover getting clitoral stimulation as well. These are the "toe curling" orgasms. My whole body tingles. Best advice, use plenty of lubricant,” says Reddit user FreeGal714.