This Is The Three-Step Guarantee For The Perfect Orgasm, According To A Leading Sexpert

When it comes to orgasming, guys have it easy.  They rub, they tug and then they're done.  That's essentially what's happening.  But for women, orgasming can be a bit frustrating during sex.  Guys have your best interests at heart, but they're just not educated enough.  They don't know exactly what truly triggers you.  Enter a new and improved technique (which takes three simple steps).  If you want to truly feel your best the next time you have sex, you need to orgasm.  Here's how you can make that work.  Keep reading to discover the three-step guarantee for the perfect orgasm, according to a sexpert.

The big O. Sex is supposed to be fun. It doesn’t take a genius to understand this. Sadly, however, sex isn’t always quite as fun as it has the potential to be, and a lot of this has to do with the difficulty that goes along with reaching an orgasm — which, for some people, can be damn near impossible without the right partner in the driver’s seat.

Understanding the orgasm. As if we didn’t already know this, orgasms aren’t as easy to come by for women as they are for men. According to Cosmopolitan, researchers from Chapman University and the Kinsey Institute explored the fascinating world of orgasms, where they culled some information most people will claim to already be more than a little familiar with.

Men and women. There’s an obvious difference in how men orgasm versus how women orgasm, and this study has confirmed that. If you were to assume that men orgasm more during sex than women do, then you’d be right. However, it goes even deeper than that. Heterosexual women, specifically, are the least satisfied in the bedroom, compared to pretty much every other type of person that exists.

Straight women versus everybody else. So, how do women really fare against everyone else when it comes to orgasming during sex? Well, first we need to take a look at the study. We need to know for sure where they really stand and how this team of researchers were able to land on their facts.

The study about sex. Led by David Frederick, the study brought together 52,000 participants of various walks of life. Some were men, some were women, some were gay, some were straight, etc. Frederick and his team were looking for orgasm gaps between the different sexes and different sexual preferences.

Freakin’ straight guys. While there’s likely no surprise here, it’s turns out that heterosexual men are living the life when it comes to how often they orgasm during sex. They sit at a comfortable 95 percent in terms of how often it happens — and now everyone is crafting a voodoo doll for all straight men just out of spite…

The other people. For everyone else (not including heterosexual women), they were more or less in a similarly satisfying boat. For homosexual men, they claimed to orgasm during sex roughly 89 percent of the time, while homosexual women stand at 88 percent. On the bottom of the barrel, though, stands heterosexual women at 65 percent.

Using the information. Even though this information is pretty much just a major disappointment, that’s not to say it can’t be useful. In fact, sometimes getting dealt a bad hand is a perfect way to be inspired to reach higher goals and work things out in the end. Without the bad times, how can you really appreciate the good?

Fixing the problem. Now that we know it’s an issue (officially speaking), then it’s time to roll up our sleeves and figure out how we’re going to fix the problem. Luckily, these researchers aren’t just wondering who is and isn’t orgasming, they’ve got some special techniques to offer to any desperate straight women out there.

How to orgasm. We all know how to orgasm, but that’s not what we’re worried about. It all comes down to making sure our partners know how to make us reach orgasm. The way that Frederick and his team go about this is offering their special three-step technique, which they explain will guarantee a happy ending after sex.

The “golden trio.” The team refers to their technique as the “golden trio.” With just three short steps, they claim that you can finally reach an orgasm while you’re having sex. So, let’s get started (and make sure your partner is either listening in or willing to take some advice). These steps may seem obvious, but when it comes to penetrative sex, they’re often overlooked.

Genital stimulation. When men and women are having sex, it’s common that the woman is not being stimulated in a way that will help her reach orgasm. This is why, while having sex, when possible, either the man or the woman herself, needs to stimulate her genitals in order to stimulate an orgasm.

Deep kissing. While this might seem uneccessary to orgasming, deep kissing is actually super important. It allows partners to sort of get lost in each other. When that happens, it can trigger the woman to more quickly reach an orgasm. It also doesn’t hurt that you’re making sure to incorporate kissing into the situation.

Oral sex. This is pretty much the most important step, seeing as you’re more or less guaranteed to orgasm once oral sex comes into play. This is how you truly stimulate a woman to help climax because the stimulation is more direct and specific. When there’s only a penis doing the stimulating, don’t count on it actually pushing her buttons the way it probably assumes it is.

Confirming what we all pretty much assumed already. Now, while the results of this study might seem obvious enough, it’s never actually been confirmed before. It took a team of curious researchers to actually reach out to people individually to know exactly where everyone stands when it comes to how much pleasure they’re feeling in the bedroom.