Why Women Should Stop Faking Orgasms

Are you living a lie? Women faking orgasms is more common than you think. But it shouldn’t be. False orgasms create intimacy boundaries between couples. Are you going to just keep performing for the rest of your life? You have to tell him that your climaxes aren’t real. There are a lot of reasons faking orgasms is a bad idea. They don’t really help anyone in the long run. This is why women should stop faking orgasms.Have you ever faked an orgasm and not told your partner? Suspect your girl is performing? Tell us about it in the comments section below.

The problem. So you and your man are blissfully happy. Sex aside, everything is amazing. But…

Your orgasms have been performances. It’s all theatrics! You’ve been faking orgasms because you don’t want to hurt his feelings. How do you tell him? Is it really worth it?

Yes. There’s no reason to deny your body orgasms because you feel bad for him. They’re your orgasms, after all.

Communication. In order for any relationship to work, there needs to be an open dialogue. Even in awkward areas like sex. It’s not going to get better if you stay silent.

Orgasm gap. In a recent study by the National Survey of Health and Behavior, researchers found there is a gap between how many orgasms men think they give and actually happen. 85% of men said they believed their female partners successfully orgasmed during sex. But only 64% of women said they actually do.

You could get caught. What if he finds out? If you ever have a real orgasm, your reaction will be different.

Better to be honest. But, if you come clean about your fakery, he won’t be as upset or hurt. He’ll appreciate that you were upfront and honest.

Sisterhood. Every woman who fakes an orgasm contributes to the idea that a woman’s pleasure should come second. It’s so unimportant that women will simulate it just for the benefit of the male ego. Don’t be one of those women.

Sisterhood. Female orgasms matter. They should be realized, not faked. Men will assume things about female pleasure based on their girlfriend’s faked orgasms. But if you think you’re helping them…

Because they’re going to keep doing what they think is working. They aren’t going to magically improve on their own. They’re going to stick to what they think you like.

Learn to communicate. Communication paves the road to better sex. Tell him what you like, what you don’t like, and tell him to do the same. It may seem awkward at first, but it will pay off.

Don’t deny yourself. Women need to stop denying the importance of their pleasure. Orgasms are glorious! Don’t give up on them because you don’t know how to talk to your partner.

Don’t lie to someone who is naked in front of you. Sex is meant to be a beautiful, vulnerable experience. You should be honest with a person you’re naked in front of.

It’s not a big deal if you don’t have an orgasm. If you can’t climax, it’s not the end of the world. Sex can still be pleasurable! Just be honest that you enjoy sex, but didn’t orgasm this time.