Try These Hacks For An Amazing Climax

The word hack originated at MIT and had no negative connotation. Hacking really only means tinkering and working to obtain full and unyielding knowledge of a system. Being able to take something apart and put it back together is being a hacker. In this case then, that thing could be your vibrator, or even your orgasm which could use some re-tooling.

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Go dirty. Just do it. We’re not recommending dirty talk. We’re recommending filthy talk. Tell him you’re going to swallow his huge c*** and choke on it. Tell her your going to lick her p**** until she pukes. The dirtier the better.

Blended orgasm. Most women either have more clitoral orgasms or more vaginal orgasms. However, why does it have to be one or the other? The recent practice of so-called “blended orgasms” is a combination of a clitoral and vaginal orgasm that happens at the same time.

What you need. Toys are your best bet to achieve a proper blended orgasm. Here’s Lelo’s guide to achieving blended delight: "The more aroused you are, the better and easier it will be, so make sure you take lots of time building up, spoiling yourself, teasing yourself. Then, when you start to feel yourself getting close, apply a powerful vibrator to your clitoris and another, longer vibrator to your G-spot. Use lots of personal moisturizer too."

Blended Cont’d. “...Find a rhythm, alternating between the pressure you’re applying to your clit and your G-spot, experimenting with slightly different angles and intensities. Try to apply the vibrations all over and around your clitoris, tracing its length inside yourself. Continue to tease and prolong the pleasure – the longer you delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be.” Of course it takes practice but once you make it work, you’ll be grateful.

Erotic Hypnosis. Erotic hypnosis is becoming an extremely popular way to reach orgasm in easier and in new ways. Certain types of erotic hypnosis can make any part of your body feel as sensitive as the penis or clitoris. Other types can be used to help you shed all inhibition.

Edging. Edging is becoming increasingly popular across the sexes and adult film world. It consists of one or two people going at it and stopping themselves right before orgasm, letting themselves calm down and then going back at it and doing it again and again until they can’t do it anymore.

Focused breathing. Sex and meditation have a lot in common, they’re both about being present. Focusing your breathing during sex is a great way to achieve arousal and stave off orgasm if you’re having trouble performing.

A pillow on your chest. This little tweak comes from Bustle, "Who says comfy sex can’t be great sex? If you’re on all fours having sex from behind, stack up some pillows to give your chest a place to rest. It’ll take the weight off of your arms and make you feel like you’re having an orgasm on a pile of clouds.”

10 and 2. "Not unlike driving, concentrating on 10 and 2 when going downtown can yield amazing results. f you run your tongue around her clitoral head, concentrating on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’clock marks on either side, and then gently slip your tongue beneath the hood, you’ll have her moaning from the intensity. While bang-on is too sensitive, those two sweet spots will make sure that she takes a licking and keeps on ticking, thanks to the bulbs hidden just beneath. The best way to pull off this maneuver is to have her straddle your face as you lay comfortably on your back,” writes Ask Men.

Go easy on the heels .Apparently, constantly walking in heels is bad for your pelvic floor and causes it to tighten so much that you’re restricting your potential for future orgasms. Wear flats whenever possible.

Wear socks. This also comes from Bustle. Apparently a common problem that keeps sex from reaching its full potential is one or both parties being cold but not wanting to stop the action to bundle. Bustle suggests having a pair of socks handy to stay warm without losing any of that sex appeal (unless the other party is a foot person). A study showed that increasing your body temperature with warm socks can increase your orgasm by 30 percent.

Coconut oil for lube. Lube does the job but sometimes it’s just not that sexy in and of itself. Coconut oil works as lube, it’s good for your skin and it also feels, smells and tastes really good, dare I say, even sexy.

Think about it all day.If you want to have sex on a certain evening, try spending the day fantasizing about it. Not only will it make it all the more satisfying when it happens but it gives you a chance to lay out a game plan.

Drink more water. According to Madam Noire, water is good for everything, including orgasm. Drinking eight glasses per day drastically increases your ability to achieve orgasm.

Spine kissing. Did you know the spine was an erogenous zone? According to Ask Men "Touch on the right side of a woman’s spine makes her melt more so than the left side, perhaps because the left side of the brain controls her right side and it's the logical side that can talk her into anything. Whether you’re kissing her there, stroking her or gently teasing her with a tickler, just make sure your moves are curvy. "