What’s On His Mind During Sex, According To His Personality Type

Every guy is different, so every guy is different in bed.  This may make sex harder to navigate sometimes, but it also makes it exciting.  Sex shouldn't feel .  Thankfully, there is a way to understand this.  If you have trouble understanding men in the bedroom, you're not alone.  So, keep reading to discover what's on his mind during sex, according to his personality.comments!

Analytical. While he’s having sex, he’s constantly aware of everything that’s happening. He’s perceptive, and sometimes to a fault. As a result, he’s not just worried about whether or not he’s putting forth his best performance, he’s noticing every little thing that you’re doing as well. He doesn’t mean to be judgmental — he just can’t help it.

Argumentative. This particular fellow may not exactly be satisfied with all of the moves or positions you’re bringing to the table. It doesn’t mean you suck at what you’re doing. In fact, you may be great at what you’re doing. He’s just used to disagreeing, so he’s thinking that if he could just put in his two cents, this could be a much more enjoyable experience.

Dominant. This is probably going too obvious, but yes, the typically dominate man is going to be looking for more and more ways to dominant you in the bedroom. That doesn’t mean he necessarily wants to take control of you, though. It just means that he wants to control the situation, because he knows what he likes, and he’s not a fan of settling.

Submissive. When you’re sleeping with a submissive men, then you’re in the company of someone who’s naturally sensitive. He wants to make sure you’re enjoying yourself, and though that isn’t exactly ruining the fun for him, he’s certainly focused on whether or not you’re having fun. So, you may want to remind that you are. If you are.

Natural helper. The natural helper is going to be your best friend in the bedroom. He wants to make this experience as fun as possible, and he’s going to bring to the table whatever it is he thinks you want. This is the kind of guy who’s going to be less in his head than other guys, as he’s specifically going to ask you what you want and when you want it.

Sociable. You’ll never have to wonder what the sociable guy is thinking while the two of you are having sex, because he’s just going to tell you. With that being said, some guys tend to bring out hidden sides of themselves when they’re having sex, so he may take this opportunity to sort of shut down mentally and focus on the physical.

Happy-go-lucky. This guy is just going with the flow, and he’s not really worried about bringing many emotions into this. He’s naked, he’s having sex — he’s happy. This is one of the most carefree kind of guys, so he doesn’t see any reason to get too lost in his head. So, don’t worry. Don’t read too much into his bright-eyed personality.

Selfish. When you’re having sex with this kind of guy, you’re dealing with someone who’s trying to get more out of the situation than he already is. It may cross his mind more often than not that you’re not satisfying him in the ways that he wants or as often as he wants, and it can make him deeply frustrated.

Bitter. This is a guy who has low expectations, but high standards. Clearly, this isn’t a good mix. Right off the bat, he’s assuming that this isn’t going to go nearly as well as he’d like it to, and he’s convinced that no matter how hard he tries, it’s never going to match up to what he wants and what he believes he genuinely deserves.

Stoic. The stoic man in bed is focused. He’s thinking about the situation at hand (having sex), and he’s going to be thinking about just that until it’s finished. His mind won’t wander, as he usually doesn’t allow it to. However, this doesn’t necessarily equate to fun, seeing as his stoicism can make him seem a bit dull at times.

Aggressive. Just because a guy is naturally aggressive outside the bedroom doesn’t mean he’s going to be a jerk during sex. In fact, while he’s having sex, this is one of the main places where he can let out of all of his aggression and blow off steam. You may notice his aggression in his physical movements, but on the inside, he’s content.

Trustworthy. This guy is a natural protector, so he’s going to be looking out for you while the two of you are having sex. He’s not insecure, but he’s going to want to prove that he’s as trustworthy as he wants to be, and he doesn’t want to come off as what some women believe is a “typical guy.” He’s not like that at all.