Done properly, oral sex is about the sexiest act in in the bedroom. But, the delicate art of the blow job is no easy feat. It takes time, energy, and practice — oh, and not to mention, the astounding ability to suppress your gag reflex at an instant. Indeed, nothing says buzzkill like having a sensitive gag reflex. Just think: You’re going down on your guy when all of a sudden your throat spasms and you let out a shriek. Or worse, you bite down on his member. Uh, , tons of women have spilled the juicy details on how they’ve come to master their gag reflex in the bedroom. Read on below!
Anonymous. "I like kneeling over him (a lot of people don’t, but I find it helps with his curve) while he plays with my hair, grabs my boobs or whatever. Then, go as far down as you can without gagging (even if it’s just the tiniest bit), and just stop there. Swallow a bit, breathe and just get used to the sensation. When you feel comfortable and your throat is relaxed, try a little further. Don’t push too quickly, just breathe in and ease down. Try moving your head to find the angle of least resistance to the bottom of your throat, as that will likely trigger your gag reflex. I find that pushing the head of the penis against the back of your throat whilst breathing in had the most success. Just keep doing this every couple of times you guys have sex, and slowly you should get used to it.”
User “way2funni.” "A: Suppress Gag Reflex: SQUEEZE LEFT THUMB… Most dentists know this one.
B: LUBE YOUR THROAT if he's really big. Use lube , butter or olive oil, swallow a generous portion (no I'm not kidding). LUBE YOUR THROAT.
C: Right before he hits the 'gag zone' START SWALLOWING and when he hits the back just push it , push it, push it, and open up and swallow swallow swallow and keep swallowing. Position matters - you want your jaw UP and head tilted so your mouth and throat LINE UP and it's a straight shot right down your throat.
THE SCIENCE: The GAG REFLEX kicks in anytime the esophagus is blocked - even for a millisecond UNLESS YOU ARE ACTUALLY PHYSICALLY SWALLOWING AT THAT MOMENT.”
B: LUBE YOUR THROAT if he's really big. Use lube , butter or olive oil, swallow a generous portion (no I'm not kidding). LUBE YOUR THROAT.
C: Right before he hits the 'gag zone' START SWALLOWING and when he hits the back just push it , push it, push it, and open up and swallow swallow swallow and keep swallowing. Position matters - you want your jaw UP and head tilted so your mouth and throat LINE UP and it's a straight shot right down your throat.
THE SCIENCE: The GAG REFLEX kicks in anytime the esophagus is blocked - even for a millisecond UNLESS YOU ARE ACTUALLY PHYSICALLY SWALLOWING AT THAT MOMENT.”
User “unabatedshagie.” "There are a few positions where it's supposedly a little easier to do, basically if the head is back so the throat and mouth are in line. Probably the easiest one for doing this is lying on your back with your head a little off the edge of the bed and him standing on the floor.
You also need to relax, if your throat tightens up no amount of forcing will get it in, also probably easier if you do the position I suggested above if you grab his ass and pull him into you rather than have him push, that way you can control the depth a bit better.”
You also need to relax, if your throat tightens up no amount of forcing will get it in, also probably easier if you do the position I suggested above if you grab his ass and pull him into you rather than have him push, that way you can control the depth a bit better.”
Anonymous. “First thing, lots of saliva. I like first putting the head just to the back of my throat. As you’re moving up and down his rod, try to push the tip barely into your throat and swallow a few times to help work it in. I usually go a half dozen times balls deep and hold there to get used to it. a lot of times he will flex his d*ck in my throat. Feels amazing. I like burying his c*ck down my throat just as he c*ms. Once he starts shooting down my throat, I swallow several times while his c*ck is in my throat. He says it’s the most amazing feeling and almost feels like I’m pulling the c*m out of his balls when I swallow down…”
User “princessofsploosh.” "I've found that just gradual practice helps, but another little trick I use is making my left hand into a fist. Usually I'll have my right hand paying attention to him, then I'll use my left to just squeeze in a fist shape, and it sort of distracts me from wanting to gag.”
User “RocktimusCrime.” "With your left hand, make a fist with your left thumb tucked in (four left-hand fingers wrapped around the left-hand thumb). This will suppress your gag reflex with the degree of effectiveness varying per person.” User “theotherdoomguy” added: "The more you squeeze, the less your gag reflex will affect you. Squeezing as hard as you can results in no gag reflex for most people.”
User “plaidrocks.” "I've found the easiest way is actually to get into the 69 position, with me on top. The curve of his erection fits much easier down my throat this way. Straighten your neck out, to create as straight of a line as possible while still being comfortable. This helped me get used to the sensation. It's still the easiest, but now sometimes I can do it kneeling over him as well. As others have said, breathe in before! I don't usually take a deep breathe though. Just stay relaxed and don't push yourself!”
User “pumpkinburger.” "The real trick to it is waiting until your throat starts producing the really thick saliva that you get when food gets stuck in the back of your throat. That stuff is the perfect lubricant.
You want to go as far down as you can, then stop for a moment until your gag reflex is under control and your throat relaxed, then ease back off. After doing that a few times, you'll start getting that thick saliva you're looking for that makes everything slide down smoothly and comfortably. The rest is all practice.”
You want to go as far down as you can, then stop for a moment until your gag reflex is under control and your throat relaxed, then ease back off. After doing that a few times, you'll start getting that thick saliva you're looking for that makes everything slide down smoothly and comfortably. The rest is all practice.”
User “alittlekink.” "Practice on a [sex toy]! That way you can focus on depth without being distracted by what your teeth are doing. Then, once you've got your throat more accustomed to the feeling of deepthroating, you can work on the rest of your mouth doing what you want it to. I'm a cam girl and sometimes have clients who want to watch me 'show off my oral skills' on a toy and I have to say... My skills have greatly improved since I started doing that.”
User “i_paint_things.” "I taught myself to deep throat using the method mentioned below - me lying on the bed backwards and him standing. Worked like a dream, teaches you how to position his c*ck so it works for you. If you're into 69ing I also find that its a good position for deep throating.
Aside from that, conscious relaxation of your gag reflex. E.g., don't try learning to deep throat if you're tense or stressed. I taught myself with my SO about two years ago and its been absolutely fantastic.”
Aside from that, conscious relaxation of your gag reflex. E.g., don't try learning to deep throat if you're tense or stressed. I taught myself with my SO about two years ago and its been absolutely fantastic.”
User “altergeeko.” "69ing is the best position for me to deep throat. I can get it all the way in and control the situation. Like someone says, just put the penis in your mouth, leave it at the back of your throat before any gagging and slowly push through.
I still have a sensitive gag reflex but I can deep throat a lot. You just have to be in control of the situation or have a safety gesture in case he wants a little control.”
I still have a sensitive gag reflex but I can deep throat a lot. You just have to be in control of the situation or have a safety gesture in case he wants a little control.”
User “Azabutt.” "I like to lay alongside my boyfriend's hip, and lean over his leg. This allows for grinding and cuddling during, and it also allows you to find a side that works the best for your combined angles. I found it harder to guide it deeper on one side over the other, and it differs between guys, because they are angled differently.
Also, it helps to take breaks in between attempts to just swallow. It helps reset your throat. If you feel yourself starting to gag, pull back and swallow a couple times, then try again. It does take practice, and maybe a glass of water. It also helps if you learn to time your nose breathing, and not have a cold.”
Also, it helps to take breaks in between attempts to just swallow. It helps reset your throat. If you feel yourself starting to gag, pull back and swallow a couple times, then try again. It does take practice, and maybe a glass of water. It also helps if you learn to time your nose breathing, and not have a cold.”
User “quicklookleft.” "I never had much of a gag reflex but I learned how to literally swallow it. How? Get a little tipsy and literally swallow it. Just keep those throat muscles going and it feels great for him, and your brain is like 'Hey it’s cool there’s stuff in there, I am swallowing' ... Does any of that makes sense?"
User “kdkorz10211.” "What I've been doing is every time I give a blow job, I throw in a push every once and a while where I push down as far as I can go without gagging and just hold for a few seconds. He has fun; I have fun and get practice. Just got my face f*cked. I'm rather proud of myself.”
User “Calico0130.” "When I learned that I could deep throat, we were actually 69ing. Since he was angled the right way to just slide down my throat it made it much easier. Just don’t push your limit, it's a learning process lol. Luckily, my gag reflex is very weak… making it even easier.
There is also a throat spray that you can get at adult stores or even in your local Spencer’s store that you can use that will numb your throat.”
There is also a throat spray that you can get at adult stores or even in your local Spencer’s store that you can use that will numb your throat.”
User “jenny867-5309.” "Whatever curvature a man has, think about your anatomies, his c*ck and your mouth, as two pieces of a puzzle. You need to make this curve fit that curve. If he curves to the side, figure out how to position yourself so that it is sliding in your mouth at the path of least resistance. Does that help?”
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