Mistakes Men Should Stop Making In Bed

Oh, guys. We know you love to please us girls and we are well-aware that you really do mean well. Unfortunately, even the most well-meaning men tend to make some pretty epic mistakes during sex sessions. Men, we love you but you need to stop making these mistakes when you’re having fun with us in the bedroom. Please take note on the mistakes men make in bed, and need to stop.What things does your man do in the bedroom that you wish he'd stop doing? Let us know in the comments section below.

Staying Vanilla. We get it. The ol’ P in V is great. It’s fun, it’s a surefire way to make us feel sexy and horny. However, most girls do want a little bit of kink in the bedroom. Please, mix it up a little. It’ll make us love you more!

Expecting Oral Sex Without Giving It In Return. Sorry, guys. We aren’t going to give you blowjobs unless you’re going to return the favor. It doesn’t make you less of a man or weird to enjoy cunnilingus - it makes you a good lover.

Bad Foreplay. We need a little bit of stimulation before we get into the main event. If you’re skipping it or doing it unenthusiastically, we’re going to be disappointed.

Not Bathing. Why? Just…why?

Showing No Emotion. Sex is a very emotionally charged act, and that means that we will expect you to show a little emotion while we’re fooling around. Most girls want to hear a little moaning and see a little expression of pleasure. Otherwise, we’ll get discouraged and stop.

Staying Silent About Your Sexual Fantasies. We need to know what you want. Unless you want both of us to feel a little underwhelmed, you’ll speak up about your desires.

Fingerbanging Way Too Roughly. This one hurts us - literally. Guys, our vaginas are sensitive. We need to have you approach it with care. If you’re just jamming your fingers in and moving them around, you will end up hurting us.

Rough Clitoral Play. One word: OUCH.

Having A Bad Attitude To Sex. Sex shouldn’t be a high pressure, high stress endeavor. If you’re turning it into a major ordeal that “makes or breaks” your feelings, you need to take a step back. Relax. A good sex session is really one that is about exploring your partner’s body.

Assuming We’re Okay With Anal. Always ask first. Otherwise, you might be met with a yelp and a jump away from you.

Assuming We’re Satisfied. Just because you enjoyed sex doesn’t mean we did. Unless you’re making a serious effort to give us a good time, it probably was just okay. We can’t all orgasm from sex, and we might need a little assistance. Work with us, and ask us what you need to do.

Being Routine. A routine is often only a couple steps away from being a rut.

Being Overly Raunchy, Way Too Fast. This is actually the same thing as being creepy. We don’t want to hear all the graphic details unless we’re really into you.

Not Taking No For An Answer. This is sexual assault or rape at its worst. At best, it’s you constantly hounding us to do something we’re not interested in doing.

You Rush It. Don’t rush it…and don’t leave immediately after sex, either. That’s just tacky.