How To Give Your Man That Extra Boost That Benefits You When He’s Going Downtown

Oral sex can be... tricky, to say the least.  Especially when it comes to women.  Just like how every vagina is unique, every girl experiences pleasure differently when it comes to the big O.  As a result, there are a variety of ways women enjoy their cunnilingus.  So, what should men keep in mind next time they go down on their partner?  Per , ladies reveal what all (straight) men need to know about going down on their partners.

User “Krakenzmama.” "Every p*ssy is different. Let me repeat : EVERY P*SSY IS DIFFERENT. One style of tongue or the same place on the p*ssy or place on the clit is no guarantee that an orgasm will occur for every woman. Our p*ssies are not coke machines where you put in a quarter and an orgasm falls out. You need to explore confidently, enthusiastically, and pay attention to her requests, breathing, noises etc. Asking is good when you aren't finding your way."

User “Krakenzmama.” "We just like you doing something for us that feels good. The fact you want to do it is awesome. Some women don't expect an orgasm but you're going to have to assume we want you to try your hardest for as long as you can. 3 licks and 1 minute is pretty lame. I have kicked guys out of bed for that 'are you ready?' after 30 seconds of p*ssy play. What a stupid question!"

User “Koraliasham.” "This might sound weird, but I love the feeling of my spouse's beard on my vaginal opening while he's going to town on my clit. He'll even press his chin hard against it because he knows it drives me wild. It just feels sooooooo good to me.”

User “dtothetwo.” "foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. you want to be POSITIVE she is wet and into it before you go down there!

go slow, be gentle, until she is so revved up she's begging for it. then just go to town my man, lap it up like sweet nectar!

only caveat is; don't feel obligated to stay down there if it smells or tastes bad. it might not taste great either way lol but if she's not clean it can taste BAD! don't be a hero!”

User “word-vomit.” "Physiologically, the tip of the penis develops from the same tissue that the clit develops from. So similar motions should be pleasurable to similar tissues.

In short: Suck on the clit.”

Anonymous. "This is the most common mistake I encounter: Don't use so much saliva that it ruins all the friction on the clit. You want your tongue to move smoothly, but not slip around like its covered in vaseline. Also, compiling from experience and what me and my friends discuss after too many drinks; its safest to use circles (with your tongue) around the clit, while gently fingering if you're with a new partner.”

User “veleda.” "Guys tend to go at it too hard, I guess in the theory that pressure is more exciting or because that's how they like it on their c*ck. Hard licks or sucking doesn't feel good to me, it gets into overstimulation and even pain. Light flickers, alternating with very gentle sweeps or circles... that's the ticket. Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally. Let her lie on her back, tell her how beautiful and hot her p*ssy is.”

User “veleda.” "Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down. Touch her other places when you're down there. I like a guy to caress my thighs, reach down to gently spread my knees apart further (very erotic), occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts. Murmur and smile occasionally to reassure her you like it and aren't grossed out by her. If you've got the look and demeanor of martyrdom, no one's going to have any fun.”

“User RhaenysTurdgaryen.” "A lot of the female pleasure is mental. Before you get down to any clit stim, tease her. Build the anticipation. Grab her thighs when making out. Brush her panties, coming closer and closer to the clit, have her shaking and gasping before they even come off. Nibble around. Build the anticipation. Play around the folds. You shouldn't touch her actual clit until she's soaking wet.

After that, well, each girl is different. Hopefully your SO knows what she likes and shows you (verbally or moanally)."

Anonymous. "Kiss her - Start with a sensual kiss on her lips. Kiss every spot on her body (perhaps not literally EVERY spot), and work your way down to her hips.

Tease her and drive her crazy with anticipation - I like to kiss and lick my way to her pussy, gently breathe onto it, but then change course and work my way back up her leg. This can be done multiple times, as long as it's funny. The best is when she can't take it anymore and pulls your face between her legs.”

Anonymous. "Take it slow - When you finally decide to show her mercy and end the teasing, start off with a few gentle licks around the lips. Take your time and work your way up to the rough stuff (if that's what she's into).

Swallow - You know what I'm talking about! If you're doing it right, it will be inevitable that she will urinate in your mouth. Don't be afraid. Encourage her. And when she does, give her the same courtesy you'd expect and swallow every drop.

Finish her off - If you don't know where the clit is, LEARN! While the entire area qualifies as an erogenous zone for a woman, pay special attention to her clit. Massage it with your tongue and pay attention to her verbal and non-verbal languages. Do whatever gets the best reaction!"

User “d1rtypanda.” Separate your tongue from the p*ssy as least as possible. Use alot of broad tongue strokes, over the entire length of the p*ssy. Suck on it softly. Stick your tongue inside. Start out slow.

For me personally (just as the other pointers are personal preference), I'm not a big fan of tongues stuck out far, rubbing the clit fast with just the tip. The tip feels too hard and.. how to explain it.. kinda like poking something with a stick, not really going for it..

I'm sure there's more to it but I was too busy orgasming instead of analysing. And enthousiasm gets you a long way."

User “ScatterRunner.” "All I can say is, it doesnt always matter what you are doing, as long as you show her you are enjoying it. That is more than half the battle as long as you aren't terrible at it.

Make noise, tell her how good she tastes, even say how much you love doing it."

User “Kankeranke.” "DON'T slobber your whole mouth/face over my vulva. The worst is when men have beard stubbles and do this. It hurts and isn't pleasurable in the least! Don't suck my clit (although some women like this). Use the tip of your tongue and only use very little pressure at the beginning (maybe increase the pressure when she is properly aroused). The most common mistake is being too rough and putting too on much pressure.”

User “tookinkygirl.” "Whatever pressure you're licking/sucking, do it lighter.

Do you think you're already doing it pretty lightly? You're not. Do it lighter.

This is just my experience. Every guy that has gone down on me is licking and sucking like it's the last p*ssy he'll ever eat. You have to start slow and build up, or else it does nothing for me."